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I have been over the shoulder reading the book my husband is currently reading, Anna Lembke‘s book, Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence.
It is a fascinating (and, as you might expect, a tad disturbing in parts about dopamine addiction), piece of research by the Stamford psychiatrist who specialises in addiction medicine.
She talks about the power of dopamine (the superpower chemical released in your brain triggering rewards, motivation, memory, body movements, pleasure), and the need that can arise for the constant thrill to reward the brain. In her research, she mentions someone who became addicted to online shopping, and it was the expectation of the parcels arriving that was giving the “fix”.
That made me think of lots of the memes I saw over the Christmas period about one thing in particular (you probably saw them, too?)… It was the one where if nothing arrived on your doorstep every day the delivery driver wasn’t sure that you were, in fact, ok… it had become so common in our lives for us to shop, shop, and shop. And because it is a meme, it means it is relatable, rather than uncommon.
Now, in that scenario the man was prescribed abstinence from online shopping for 30 days. The point being that it needed at least time given to change the patterns in his brain.
As a habits trainer, I can translate this very much into relevance for getting our habits to stick. When we want to reduce our bad habits, and get less of those quick unnatural dopamine hits, like, say from our phones we can access 24/7 (think how many times do you check your phone absent-mindedly – actually it is on autopilot as one of those pesky habits), or think of the kids when they immediately want to play xbox etc), we need to believe it, and allow the new habits and better ways to get dopamine naturally.
Natural dopamine hits come in many forms (all free, woohoo!).
Here’s the top 7 things that can elevate your mood – the kind of dopamine addiction we can all get behind
- Exercise: even a brisk walk (include some uphill) is amazing, and running is a fantastic way to feel lifted.
- Certain foods
- Meditation
- Listening to music
- Sleep (getting enough of it)
- Sunlight (open your blinds early and let it pour over you in bed)
- Dancing
The point is, we can make trades with our bad habits to get those good dopamine hits. Sure, getting enough sleep when you have kids is almost laughable, but there are plenty more little ways you can address, and they all start to build up.
For those of us who love research, there is more on this fascinating work by Anna Lembke, and how to get natural dopamine highs the healthy ways.
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